I am throwing myself a 40th birthday party- about 50-60 people, including maybe a dozen kids of ages 3-12. Brunch party at a chef-friend's dining studio (large warehouse industrial type space). Decorations in a "bohemian luxe" theme- saris of scarlet, gold, purple, pumpkin, lanterns and hurricane vases, exotic music in the background, etc. I have a friend who will be mixing personalized scents as favors, and probably a mehndi artist as well, but am looking for some more entertainment or decoration ideas. Although there will be kids there, I don't want stuff that's juvenile- childlike, but not childish. Think Willy Wonka meets Cirque du Soleil.