Well, this is my first post here, so...here it goes.
My fiance and I are getting married in 24 days...we have been officially living together for about 8 months, and unofficially about 6 months prior to that....Prior to getting engaged I relocated with him to his hometown, where his family is, his job is (he works for a family business) and he obviously grew up. I moved further away from my family, left my friends, got a new job (where I had to take a step down because it is a small town) and on top of it all am planning a wedding.
We have worked well together, I have no doubt in my mind that getting married is the right decision...but I am having a problem adjusting. I havent had time to make many friends, I don't like my job at all and I am far away from my family...I can't seem to get in my groove, on top of that I am planning a wedding and getting used to living with someone. All of this is making me, well grumpy...I am a fairly short tempered individual, where as my fiance is very laid back and easy going. I come home from work worn out, have no girlfriends to vent to and he tends to get defensive and take things personally.
What I am looking for is help...I need help adjusting, watching my mouth before I speak, he is an AMAZING individual and I fear I am putting a kink in our relationship because of my ways. How do I adjust, how long will it take to get in OUR groove? HELP! I want to make things better!