So me and my fiance - we have been together for 6 months and engaged for two. Yes, things did move quickly. I also moved him in quickly as well. So - I can honestly say the one thing we fight about all of the time is sex. And it is not him fighting with me - it is me fighting with him about it. From the very beginning, it was every other day and now it is like every two or three days - however, sometimes we go 5 or 6 days without having sex. We have had a couple of big arguments over this, because I try to initiate and he turns me down, which is like rejection to me and hurts my feelings. Our last argument was this past weekend and throughout our arguments little things come out - and he admits he is very dysfunctional when it comes to sex and he associates it with arguing and drinking - his last relationship of 5 years was nothing but this and the girl got pregnant on purpose.
The issue is - he will not go see someone about the issues he is having with sex and I want it more. In my opinion, we should be having sex at least 4 times a week being so new in a relationship. Does anyone have any suggestions?