Over Christmas my cousin found that my niece was looking at inappropriate (sexual) things on the internet. She was googling words and terms that she heard in school, this is just curiousity. But then her mom found the websites that she's been visiting which are soft core p0rn.
They've had the talk several times, but obviously the niece doesn't trust her mom enough to talk to her about things about which she is curious. So her mom asked me to have a discussion with her.
After talking with the mom I then discovered that there were no parental controls on the TV or the internet. That she trusted them enough to not go on the sites. OF COURSE they're going to go there, even if it's by accident. her mom has banned her from the net, TV, and the niece is grounded. She called me in a panic about what to do with her, that she's afraid she's going to be the town s!ut. I said that I would talk to her and see what's going on.
Not only do I have to give a $ex talk, but I need to make sure there is an open dialogue between us, so I told the mom that whatever we talk about is confidential. Fun times!