This afternoon, I'm sitting at home, enjoying the quiet prepping myself to go back into the world tomorrow and my phone rings. Caller ID shows it is my cousin Brian. His mom (my aunt) had let him know about our pregnancy, the loss and the D&C and he just wanted to call. He said, "I'm a guy, I don't know what to say to make it better, but I wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you." I told him honestly that was the nicest thing he could have done. I totally teared up- it was so sweet and thoughtful (which is not his normal thing).