We got engaged June 21 and set the wedding date for July 31, 2010. On July 25, my parents announced they are getting a divorce. As things between them have deteriorated over the past two months, I, and my wedding have been thrown more and more into the middle. The first month we were engaged my mom was so into the planning that she drove me crazy wanting to talk about it all the time. Now (understandably) she wants nothing to do with it and has flat out told me she's dreading my wedding. On top of that, she and my sister (who is my MOH) are both furious that I'm still talking to my dad and trying to remain neutral. They want me to cut him out of my life completely.
I feel selfish for worrying about my wedding while they're dealing with so much but it's something I only plan to do once and I am afraid it's going to be ruined. Part of me wants to just call it off until things calm down but that's not fair to my fiance, we would lose several deposits and, most importantly, it's hard enough waiting that long, let alone even longer. I've thought about making it a smaller day but we'd still have our families there so the issue would remain the same.
ANY advice or help would be appreciated.