I'm just curious if anyone else is going through a simliar situation as me.. So my FI and I moved next door to my parents 6 months ago and rented from them.. All was great when we moved in but my mom was over alot and saw alot of our day to day life, little arguments and so on. Well my brother came over one night and started telling my FI and I all the stuff my mom was talking about us. She was saying how my FI couldn't take care of me and she has a problem with him switching his job. Meanwhile he makes double what he was making, I don't get it. So I went next door to talked to her and she locked herself in her room and didn't want to talk, I just started yelling at my mom cause I was so hurt and mad that she's talking all about us to my brothers and her friends. Why not talk to me? So long story short, we wound up moving out last month. We cancelled our big wedding and my FI and I and 2 friends are going to Vegas and we will get married there. She said right to my FI in a very nasty tone "You aren't the guy for my daugther and you can't support her" And my dad said just prove to us that you can. My FI said "I have nothing to prove to you guys, I have everything to prove to your daughter" Well my parents didn't like what he said so now they don't want anything to do with him. I let things settle for a few weeks and went over the other day and asked them when they are coming to see our new place, my mom said only when I'm home. I think it's total BS. My mom hurt me so much this year, I wasn't invited to my dads 60th bday or allowed over for fathers day. I'm just sick of it. I'm 30!! On top of that my brothers dont talk to me because my mom told them my FI yelled at her. I said you guys don't even know the whole story and they didn't even care to hear my side. So now it's 2 weeks before we're married and my parents don't even want to let things go and move on. I wrote a letter to her a few weeks ago, she didn't even call me. She's so stubborn and nasty and they one that's hurting the most is me. I already know I will have a huge chip on my shoulder for the rest of my life and when it's my brothers turn to get married I will remember this and treat them the same way.
I'm just curious of anyone else has a similiar situation and what they did and what happened down the line? Thanks!