Thank you ladies all for your advice and for not judging me. This is why I love our board! Anyhow I did tell him over lunch. I was entirely honest because weve never been anything less than honest with each other. He was upset and hurt but I apologized and he forgave me. Were fine and he agreed that we wouldn't ever bring it up, so as not to make it worse and no more guilt on my part, or hurt on his. Haha from now on Im only going out with him. j/k but I will be more responsible next time! Definitely.
BTW for those of you who asked, I was with the group and several guys walked us out together.And the bride did much worse than I did =/
It was exciting to dance with and have someone be interested in me, but the price is too high, I learned my lesson and Im glad I didnt have to go to far to learn it!