My friend, we'll call them R, has been dating someone for over a year, off and on, and they currently live together. Myself and our mutual friends hate this guy and the way he treats our friend.
My friends and i got together this weekend for dinner without our SOs and R has a black eye. We all ask R about it, and R says "I talked back." this is not the first time that R has admitted to being hit by the boyfriend. R says they have broken up, and R just needs some time to find a new place to live. I believe this, i think my friends do too. We've all offered to let R stay on our couches (none of us have extra rooms in our homes) and help move everything, and R just says thanks and "I'll let you know..."
Do we have an intervention, or let R work it out and continue to offer help with place to stay and packing?