So, we got Oaks tickets, thanks to you lovely ladies who posted website suggestions in response to my post below! Now I just have to figure out what to wear We're in the grandstands, and I seem to remember from many years ago that people were fairly casual (more casual dress and shoes for the ladies, no tie for the guys) in the grandstands. . . . but I could be wrong! Do you ladies have any tips, suggestions, or "rules"? Thanks!