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My DH adores oral, which poses a problem for me.  I have TMJ and cannot open my mouth very far without a lot of jaw popping and pain.  Lucky for him I can open it just far enough (without too much discomfort) to fit him in, the problem is...  I have to roll my lips over my teeth to keep them from rubbing/scratching him, and it never fails, my teeth always cut into my lips.  Between my jaw getting sore and my poor cut up lips, I'm ready to call it quits on oral. 

I was wondering...  Do any of you ladies know of a mouthguard or something similar that would work to cushion my teeth during BJ's so that my I can keep my lips from getting cut?

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  • Honestly, if giving him Oral causes you physical pain and injury, I dont think any good husband in their right mind would continue to ask for it!
  • Uhm yeah, I'm going to have to second the selfish prick sentiment. You're in pain and he wants oral anyway??

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  • I have TMJ also, though it sounds like not as bad as yours is. I do feel bad sometimes that I can't do more than a few minutes without getting uncomfortable. No advice sadly, but I feel your pain. Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel though, I'm sure he doesn't want you to be uncomfortable.
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  • Find yourself a physical therapist who specializes in TMJ because there is help available.  But, do it for you....not because of your DH!
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  • image BobbiDee02102007:
    Honestly, if giving him Oral causes you physical pain and injury, I dont think any good husband in their right mind would continue to ask for it!

     

    Seriously.  Tell him to use the other set of lips that you won't have to sink your teeth into in order to please him.  That way you both win! lol 

  • I almost feel bad for her H. She said he adores oral, not that he is forcing her to go down on him. Do we know that her H knows that going down on him causes her pain or it cuts her lips? No. If it were me and I was in pain I would try to hide it, so my H could enjoy me going down on him. One would think he would loose his erection if she was showing physical pain.
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    I almost feel bad for her H. She said he adores oral, not that he is forcing her to go down on him. Do we know that her H knows that going down on him causes her pain or it cuts her lips? No. If it were me and I was in pain I would try to hide it, so my H could enjoy me going down on him. One would think he would loose his erection is she was showing physical pain.

     

    How many husbands dont know that their wives have a medical condition?

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    I almost feel bad for her H. She said he adores oral, not that he is forcing her to go down on him. Do we know that her H knows that going down on him causes her pain or it cuts her lips? No. If it were me and I was in pain I would try to hide it, so my H could enjoy me going down on him. One would think he would loose his erection is she was showing physical pain.

     

    How many husbands dont know that their wives have a medical condition?

    He may know that she has TMJ, but maybe not the severity of it... Lucky for him I can open it just far enough (without too much discomfort) to fit him in
  • I have TMJ too. I don't use a 'device' or anything but I have found a position that works. He gets on top of me in 69 position and it takes alot of strain off my jaws. That way he also has to put soem effort into it too and it's not all me.
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    image Sabrina-Fair:
    I almost feel bad for her H. She said he adores oral, not that he is forcing her to go down on him. Do we know that her H knows that going down on him causes her pain or it cuts her lips? No. If it were me and I was in pain I would try to hide it, so my H could enjoy me going down on him. One would think he would loose his erection is she was showing physical pain.

     

    How many husbands dont know that their wives have a medical condition?

    Just because he knows there's a medical condition doesn't mean he understands how it exactly reacts with certain actions and how it hurts or makes her feel. I totally get where the OP is coming from. There's no reason at all to assume that her H is some sort of selfish, uncaring bastard forcing or guilting her into going down. She knows her H loves oral, and she doesn't want to give up giving him oral. That leaves her the option of finding a workaround, which is what she is asking for.

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    image Sabrina-Fair:
    I almost feel bad for her H. She said he adores oral, not that he is forcing her to go down on him. Do we know that her H knows that going down on him causes her pain or it cuts her lips? No. If it were me and I was in pain I would try to hide it, so my H could enjoy me going down on him. One would think he would loose his erection is she was showing physical pain.

     

    How many husbands dont know that their wives have a medical condition?

     I just learned I also Have this condtion TMJ i did not know i had it until a few days ago and I have to say that my b/f doesnt know I have this condition even though it causes me pain during oral as well. It's hard because sometimes I'd really like to be able to go down more on him and well doesnt always seem possible. Ive never went to the doctor and got dianogsed with this condtion bc how many ppl want to say to the doc hey when i suck his *** my jaw pops out of place hurts etc. To me saying that alone is terrifying!

     

     

  • I was diagnosed about a year and a half ago. My Dr. asked if it was affecting my everyday life, and other than oral or chewing something especially tough, it doesn't.  (of course, i didn't mention the oral bit)  So she gave me the option of going to physical therapy, but she said she doesn't think it's needed unless my TMJ gets worse, and it hasn't.  And DH does know that I have it, but like other posters have mentioned I usually don't let him know how bad it is. 
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    I was diagnosed about a year and a half ago. My Dr. asked if it was affecting my everyday life, and other than oral or chewing something especially tough, it doesn't.  (of course, i didn't mention the oral bit)  So she gave me the option of going to physical therapy, but she said she doesn't think it's needed unless my TMJ gets worse, and it hasn't.  And DH does know that I have it, but like other posters have mentioned I usually don't let him know how bad it is. 
    Thank you for ending this debate, whether or not your DH is an AH!!!! Lol.

    I've never used the blow guard, but I guess it's worth a shot, right?! It even shows a demonstration. PORN WARNING!!! Lol.

  • I also have TMJ and I have found that taking an alieve beforehand helps with the pain. I also cover my bottom teeth with my tounge.

    Good luck

  • and also, maybe she likes giving oral.  I know that becuase my boyfriend loves it so much, it arouses me also
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  • image Sabrina-Fair:

    Thank you for ending this debate, whether or not your DH is an AH!!!! Lol.

    I've never used the blow guard, but I guess it's worth a shot, right?! It even shows a demonstration. PORN WARNING!!! Lol.

    I checked out the website earlier this morning.  I might buy one for myself for my b-day.  :)  I'm just wondering if there's another option.  I was thinking maybe wax?  I never had braces, but my best friend did.  I remember that she used a type of wax to put over her braces to keep them from scratching up her lips...  Maybe that wax would work if I were to put it over the edges of my teeth?

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    image Sabrina-Fair:

    Thank you for ending this debate, whether or not your DH is an AH!!!! Lol.

    I've never used the blow guard, but I guess it's worth a shot, right?! It even shows a demonstration. PORN WARNING!!! Lol.

    I checked out the website earlier this morning.  I might buy one for myself for my b-day.  :)  I'm just wondering if there's another option.  I was thinking maybe wax?  I never had braces, but my best friend did.  I remember that she used a type of wax to put over her braces to keep them from scratching up her lips...  Maybe that wax would work if I were to put it over the edges of my teeth?

    Well with the braces, the wax would not be sitting on your teeth, they would be on the braces. I would call your Dentist first. Too, you could probably use the teeth trays that are used in teeth whitening kits. It is the same concept as the blow guard, but may not be as thick of rubber, does not include the strawberry lube or vibe, BUT you could give DH a BJ and whiten your teeth at the same time. How's that for multi-tasking!?! Lol. Wink

    Good Luck sweetie and hugs! Left Hug>>>kk>>>


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