My mom has been pretty terrible over the past few months, but it has just gotten ridiculous lately!
A little information: My FI and I don't live together. We had planned on moving into a 2 bedroom apartment (we both have one bedrooms and want something bigger) come this October or November. We also moved our wedding date because we were tired of my mom holding the money over ours heads, she offered to pay for the entire thing. We've now decided to pay for the entire wedding ourselves, but this means moving our plans quite a bit into the future. My mother has convinced herself that I am immoral and skanky because I'm going to be "living in sin" and that my FI will never make good on his promise to marry me now that he can "fvck me whenever he wants". And that was a direct quote from her.
I had come to visit my parents the other day and she laid all this on me. Telling me how wrong I am and that I'll most likely end up pregnent and everyone will think I"m a whore. WTF? She went on and on insluting my FI, and I left telling her that if that's how she felt, then wonderful. When she wanted to treat me with some respect then we could talk.
I guess I'm just not sure where to go from here. My mom is bipolor and sometimes I'm not sure if she is truly responisble for how she acts. I do know that she's making my dad and younger sister miserable with how she's going on about me and my FI. She keeps calling me saying she wants to make up, but it just turns into her telling me how slutty I'm being.
Do I just ignore all this? Pretend it didn't happen? I love my mom, but this is just f*cking ridiculous. She's never accepted that I"m an adult and I'm going to livemy life and do what's best for me.