My husband and I have been married since August 2008....since then, i've gained about 20 pds...a result of stress eating and because I haven't been exercising as much lately. We've been having quite a few issues...this includes our sex life. I've found out that my husband has watched porn at least four times since we've been married and is constantly tempted to watch it...Neither one of us want porn to be a part of our marriage...we started talking about it...and then later on tonight we were sitting on the couch and he blurts out that i need to lose weight because he's not sexually attracted to me anymore. It made me feel horrible, I wanted to start bawling. I know i've gained weight, I feel bad enough without him telling me that. I've been trying to start eating better and I joined the gym...I've been trying to work out. It seems like he's blaming his desire to watch porn on me and the fact that i've gained some weight. Ironically enough, I've mainly been stress eating because of him...he never seems to want to help me with chores or anything around the house. I'm a full time student and i work part time. The newlywed life has been very stressful and he doesn't seem to be much help....now he's blaming our sex life...or lack of...on me. He got mad at me when I acted upset to his statement about him not being sexually attracted to me anymore. Did I overreact by getting upset? He hurt my feelings and made me feel like crap. I already know that I need to lose weight, I already feel crappy....that just made it worse. Has anyone else had a similar experience?