So my DH and I have been together for over 10 years. We used to both have kind of lower sex drives. We had sex maybe 4 or 5 times a month for the 1st 7 or 8 years of our relationship.
When I got to be 32-ish I started to get way more sexual. I want it all the time. he has not changed. Then-- to make matters worse, I needed medically to stop taking hormonal birth control.
He hates sex with condoms (always has). he has always rathered not to have sex than to have it with a condom.
He really wants to have a baby (I do not yet). He always says he will have sex with me with no condom as he wants a baby.. but I don't want that so it has as of today been 3 months with no intercourse. I have given him oral at least 6 or 7 times and we have made out, etc (I do not like oral).
Anyways-- before you ask, I have tried everything. I have done sexy undies (and BTW I am 108 pounds and work out all of the time so not overweight or let myself go in anyway), stripped, talked dirty. I have tried talking to him about it at times not around sex , I have tried igoring.
He says he is so happy and loves me so much and just does not understand wy I want it so much.
How do I handle this? I can masterbate a lot I guess, but this is starting to make me upset.
OP - You say you DD'd because of too much personal information in this. I don't really see anything identifying. I took your SN off. No one will know who you are unless you let the cat out of the bag.
Therefore, you can keep getting advice on your awesome husband and there's no need to worry about the "personal" information because it's non-existant.