Our counselor says we should have a sit down with the IL's and for us to tell them how we feel and try to just smooth things over ( not for things to be like they were before but to help us get over it )
She suggested to either call them on speaker phone or sit down face to face. DH decided it would be better face to face so she can't hang up.
So dinner is scheduled at their house for Saturday, they refused to come to our house. I'm so nervous that they are going to completely attack me and shred me up.
The counselor suggested DH try to stay out of it if I happen to get in an argument with someone, she thinks I rely too much on DH to stand up for me and I never get to say what I need to say...which is why I have so much resentment towards them.
Anyways, just wanted to share how nervous I was.