Brief history. DH (only child) marries me. MIL dislikes me from getgo and thoughout 5 yrs. marriage (so far) lets me know that in not so many words/actions. DH/I have DD 1 1/2 yrs. ago. IL's watch DD while I go back to work PT despite my judgment otherwise. MIL has 3rd tangent of ranting @ me on Valentine's Day last year. DD goes to daycare. Don't see them for 5 months, invite them to DD's 1st bday. They don't RSVP, but show up, MIL doesn't talk to DH/I and FIL only hello. Week after, IL's basically disown son, decide they're moving midwest, gave DH back anything having to do w/him (incl. his own baby books/pictures). Haven't heard from them again since July. FIL calls DH and says they're broke, need money. Can they borrow some from us? What would you do?