My mom asked me for a guest list for my shower. Originally each mother (my mom, his mom and his stepmom) was going to plan their own shower. Right before the holidays though we found out his mom's cancer is back and she has started chemotherapy, so my mom is going to combine their two showers. I just don't know who to invite, my husband's family is not that close, we only see his aunts and uncles once a year - if that. But I have been invited to all of their kids' showers, etc. I just feel bad sending an invite to someone I barely see... I asked my DH what he thought and he was like "Do what you want.." I don't want to ask his mom, because she has enough on her plate right now..
What would you do?