I will try to keep this short as possible..... my husband cannot discuss anything when he is angry about something.
This time being I liked some guys photo on Instagram and was following him and so he said I am a Liar because I said I dont like photos because I am thinking he is hot it just came up in my feed and I dont really care or pay attention Im just liking photos as I scroll along!. ANYWAYS.
He will stay angry for days and every time I try to speak w/ him about it he just points the finger and blames and yells or gives the silent treatment.
I have tried telling him i refuse to accept this behavior and i am going to leave him alone for a few days ( he is currently in his country we are waiting for his visa to process, i just moved back stateside as i was living in his country.) But then he just repeats himself says i am a liar and is dismissive to me, then i try to defend myself and its like a cycle.
I dont know how to deal with this type of behavior.