Long story short, my BIL and his wife are idiots. They do not think about their futures and only care about themselves. My BIL recently left the marine corp and moved himself, his wife, and their son in to his parents house. Keep in mind, that he has no job lined up, gets almost everything handed to him, and wouldn't know how to think about anyone other than himself if his life depended on it...Despite mine and my husband's feelings, we have always tried to remain supportive and give advice/help when we can (ESP once they planned to have their child, after all it's not the kid's fault that they're stupid). We just want everyone to be happy in the family, so we avoid conflict and take pride in ourselves for being well rounded.
This passed Friday, my husband and I found out that we are having a son. This will be our first child, and we are overwhelmed with joy. Unfortunately, without notice, the BIL has blocked us both from Facebook, won't speak to my husband, and now his wife isn't speaking to me. They were talking to us like they normally do, up until they found out that we were having a boy. I don't understand this at all. Please, help me understand this.