My husband is having his 40th birthday soon and so I emailed my family and siblings a mass email where I CC'd them.
I did not email any of their spouses or include them in the email as I just assumed of course they were invited and that my siblings would talk about it with their spouses and let me know. However I did not mention that in the email.
When I asked my brother if he and his family were coming I was told his wife was not as she did not feel invited.
I am totally blown away. Of course she is invited, and she is my only in law who assumed that.
My questions are: Should I have included my siblings families in my email? Is she overreacting or does her reaction make sense? What should I do now?
Thanks so much