I am fairly annoyed at my Dad as neither my daughter or I have had a birthday or Xmas card for two years. (My daughter is 12). We live in separate hemispheres and call each other sporadically but all that I have asked is that he at least send a card for her birthday and Xmas, I send cards to him and my Step-mother. Now that she has had a biological grandchild my daughter has not even had so much as a card (let alone a present). What annoys me the most is that my Step-Dad always makes an effort, after my Mum past away to include us in his life.... Yet my biological Dad does not seem to car one bit. How do I explain this to my daughter who is getting rather upset especially as she makes an effort to make and send cards of all their significant events (e.g. Birthdays, Xmas, Fathers Day and Mothers Day).