My husband, since we've been married (almost one year) has decided to take up drinking heavily. He started drinking two weeks after the wedding after being sober for a long time. He's been drinking every day since May 6, 2014. Some days he drinks a ton, other days he can still sort of function. I use that term loosely. This fall he decided to start drinking beer and vodka (or rum) at the same time. This caused him to turn into a raging lunatic who spent a night in jail for trying to attack me in the middle of the afternoon while on a drunken bender. When he got out of jail, he stopped the hard alcohol but still felt the need to drink beer. Shortly after the holidays his drinking increased. His cousin who's the same age died 3 weeks ago and now my husband cannot cope at all with the grief. He is drinking alllll day every day, beer, hard liquor, you name it. He doesn't work (had his own company but lost it to drinking), doesn't do s%it around the house, no cooking, no cleaning, and constantly gives me, the one who does work, an attitude allll the time! I am so sick of him!!!! I found a new place to live and can fully support myself because, hello! I do it now! The problem is he gets in my face, gives me attitude, fights, argues, throws a temper tantrum when things don't go his way. Hearing I want to leave will NOT make him happy. I sign the lease on a new home next Tuesday and really do NOT want him on my lease. I want time away from him because right now I feel like I'm being pulled in so many directions and so much stress is on me with having to support his a$$. I'm tired of supporting him!!!!!! He WON'T get off his a$$ and work because that would require sobriety and he doesn't want to go to rehab. He feels he can kick the drinking himself. When he's ready, of course haha. I need help getting away from this a$$, any advice?