I'm 15 now and I'm growing more and more distant from my dad. My mom and I have a good relationship, but me and my dad's personalities clash. I find he's insecure, and my mom has told me that he is sensitive. He takes out his anger (verbally) onto other people from his job. He works at home.
At times I think I'm doing nothing wrong at he'll just be angry with me. First time I started to realize this was age 8, when we were on a trip as a family. We were playing shuffleboard and I was on my dad's team, vs my mom and brother. My dad was taking a while to shoot so I sat on a low branch from a tree close by. When he was done shooting he called me a bitch for not being there on time to shoot. He was very angry and it scared me.
He does this to my mom and my brother too, but there personalities more or less brush it off. I can't stand it.
For instance, he just knocked on my door, and said "Can I come in?' I said, "What?" (not in a mean way) and my dad comes in and says "Are you serious?! I can't believe what a rude person you are," And leaves.
I'm starting to become more uncomfortable around him and distant. What should I do?