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I was recently snooping around (because I had a nagging feeling) on my long term partner's cell phone and found some messages between he and another woman. I confronted him about this and he told me that he did have a sexual relationship with her but it was before me and sexted her during a period of a few months that we were not together. I don't have any proof that what he says isn't true but he never told me about seeing her and I am most disturbed by a recent email he sent her. He apologized for "the way he left things" with her and said that he still thinks about her often and made a comment about how great their "physical" relationship was. He says he just wanted to give her some closure because he felt bad about the way he treated her. I feel it is very inappropriate that he contacted her after not talking to her for almost two years and that he felt the need to tell her he thinks about her and remind her how great their sexual relationship was. Her response was basically that she missed him and he had yet to respond back to her at the point of my intercepting these messages. I feel like he was looking to rekindle something, which is cheating. He disagrees. Am I overreacting? Do I have a right to tell him he needs to cut off all contact with this person? They are friends on facebook. Do I have a right to ask him to give me his passwords to his accounts? I feel like there are some time gaps and he has given me reasons to be suspicious. Thanks for any feedback!