I'm hoping someone can give me some good advice.
My husband has been out of work for over a year and I have been footing all the bills. I has looked for jobs here and there but the idea has become a little lackluster. Now he kind of hangs at our apartment, plays video games, and plays hockey all the time.
I try to be encouraging and help motivate him but it doesn't work. He puts all his focus on playing hockey with his friends and not on how we need to make money. I don't want him to quit what makes him but now I'm not happy. I've even expressed how bad we need the money and how I may need to quit something I love doing on my free time to get a second job.
I love him and I don't want to leave him but I'm now tired of doing everything with no help. I feel like maybe I'm being too much of a nag about it and that's not what he needs to get off his feet. So maybe some positive reinforcement??
If anyone has been in this position, any advice would be helpful. Thanks'