After nearly three (very long, unpleasant) years, I've finally admitted to myself that I want a divorce. However, I feel terrible about it, since DH is the one who will lose most with this decision. He's unemployed, occasionally making a bit of money on eBay to feed his video game habit. I'm the one that has the full time job (plus some extra part-time to make up for his lack of work), who can afford to keep up the mortgage and car payments etc. Effectively, this divorce would leave him homeless, as he is in so much debt he would not be able to afford even a small apartment, let alone a car. He's cut ties with his family so that option is out as well. I feel bad about this, even though it's the right decision for me, I can't knowingly throw him out in the street. I don't love him anymore, but I don't wish that on him. I don't know what to do. It makes me feel bad enough that I'm second-guessing my decision, which I know is dumb. Has anyone been in a similar situation?