Hi ladies! I was hoping to get some positive advice on here regarding my husband. Recently, I have caught him in lies regarding texting and going to the casino. I am in therapy already because of the loss of my mom. I am also going to bring it up to my therapist in our next session but in the meantime, I could use some help and support:) A few weeks ago his iPad kept dinging and I went to silence it because I was working on a paper for grad class. It was a number I didn't recognize so I simply asked him who it was. He said, "it's one of my suppliers for the business." Yes, he owns his own business but how would a supplier know he's been sick recently with a sinus infection so I asked again. He got so mad (almost flew into a rage) and started calling me crazy. I backed off for a few days. Then I asked him again who it was and he responds," It's nobody, none of your damn business!!" I ask again. "It's a friend!!!!!" me: "What's her name?" Him: "Does it matter?!?!?!?!?!?! It's none of your f&^%ing business!" Come to find out it's some "friend" named "Chris" who he lived with a few years back that is "a friend of someone he knows". He was extremely vague about it and shut down and extremely argumentative and super defensive. He also went to a casino last month during the day and didn't tell me. I found out when a casino players club card fell out of his wallet during pocket-checking before I wash clothes. I guess I'm wanting to know why he didn't tell me he ran into this girl at the grocery store and why she was texting him and why he didn't tell me he went to the casino. Am I being overly concerned or do I have a right to be frustrated? Thanks!