My husband and I are celebrating our 1 year anniversary in 2 weeks and had planned to take a week off together to just relax and spend some along time together. We have had a lot of issues that have come up in the past few months that ended with us having to see a marriage counselor. Things were starting to look up and we both had our companies approve our vacation time for our anniversary. We weren't planning on going anywhere extreme, just maybe take a few days to go to the beach and relax together the rest of the week. I guess I was looking forward to it a little more then he was though. He made the HUGE, idiotic (I think), mistake of telling his boss that he will still be in town and that we weren't going anywhere. So surprise, surprise, the company is having this last minute meeting here in town that he is required to go to, which I think is a load of BULL. Maybe I'm overreacting, maybe not but I really think that week should be about us and he shouldn't being going to a 2 day long meeting. All he has to say for it is "we have 9 days together, me not being here for 2 of those days isn't a big deal." It's a huge deal to me though. He is already leaving for Italy for work at the end of this week for 6 days. That week was supposed to be our time and now I'm just upset because I feel like he would rather put work before our marriage. Am I overreacting for being so pissed about this? I just feel like it's none of his companies business if we are going to be in town or not and I feel like if you have a vacation planned work should not interfere. Not to mention this is the only vacation I get for the year where I work aside from a few days off here and there.