Did anyone wait to have sex until they were married? As I read these posts, I'm not seeing many virgin brides.....
No judgment here by any means.
If you did, why did you wait?
If you didn't, why didn't you?
To answer my own question, I'm waiting because it was a promise I made to myself when I was young, and it is a way of respecting my FI and my FI's way of respecting me. I understand that for most couples, sex before marriage is not a sign of disrespect. For us, it is, because these are goals we've set for ourselves and it would be disrespectful for us to get in the way of each others goals. There are many other reasons, but those are my main two reasons.