So it was around 12:30am Vday already. DH is in his office playing video game. I am in dining room studying for a big license exam. Earlier today I broke the bad news that I got my period. Always happens on special occasions to me! But I said whatever, we can still work around it. Has not always stopped us before! And he agreed.
So I go into his office with coffee to surprise him and say happy valentines day, and I could tell right away he had just masturbated. So I asked him and he said yes, a little while ago, defending himself and saying I had my period. Seriously? I have no problem with his doing this because I get it. He saw himself with slim chances of getting any. And either way he needs no excuse because I know he does it on the daily. But what bothers me is that I was in the next room! What if I would have walked in just 10 minutes earlier and caught him in the act? I would not be comfortable with that. Should I talk to him to establish some boundaries? Would you be ok if this happened to you?