I don't know what to do about a Christmas gift for my soon-to-be inlaws. They refuse to make a list or give any ideas of what they want and from past Christmases, they seem kind of ungrateful for what we've found for them. I get the feeling that they're expecting us to get them an extremely thoughtful, more expensive gift for them but it's not in our budget to send them on trips or get them big ticket items, nor would I want to even if we did. In my family, we've always gotten each other gifts that are thoughtful but less expensive than what they seem to be after.
I just don't know what to do. This is more of a vent than anything, but if anyone has any suggestions, I'd appreciate it.