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When Did You Have Sex with DH?


Re: When Did You Have Sex with DH?

  • We waited I think three months until after we dated. We were doing everything but sex after only a week or two together I think. We were both virgins.

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  • I'm going to be the biggest prude here. I was a virgin until our wedding night. So was my husband. We had dated for about a year before we got married.

    I don't think that's prudish. It's not my style, but if that's where you felt comfortable then it's perfect for you! I would never make fun of someone for having or not having sex.
  • I love your story @Flamingo86!

    We waited until our second date. About 3 days. But I could already tell he was somebody special, if that counts for anything. :-)
  • Nope, I think waiting is awesome. I made dumb mistakes when I was really young and they just snowballed. Obviously I am happy with how life turned out, but I would hope that my future kids make better decisions, wait longer, etc.
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    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
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  • We started dating right after I turned 17, so we waited until just before my 18th birthday. So about 9 months I think. Although we did a lot of other things before that. Lol

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  • @Flamingo86 we waited too, and we were dating/ engaged for 4 yrs before we married.
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  • I don't remember for sure; maybe 3 weeks.
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  • I'm going to be the biggest prude here. I was a virgin until our wedding night. So was my husband. We had dated for about a year before we got married.

    You think you're a prude, DH and I started dating in 2004(seniors in high school) and didn't do it till the day after our wedding in 2010 because we were too damn nervous that first night. it's not like we didn't have fun together and I was open to whatever DH wanted, but he's very conservative.
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  • 3 - 4 weeks in?  I was 22, a virgin, he was 26, not a virgin.  He was my first and only.
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  • We waited until we were married. We crashed the first night. I had my period/was sick through our honeymoon so it was sometime after that week.
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

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  • We waited 'till we were married. He's my first and only

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!

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