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Xan921Xan921 member
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edited August 2013 in Getting Pregnant
Tonight my Mom told me that she felt bad that nothing ever works out for me and that I should try listening to Joel Osteen and thinking positively because it has helped her (really, Mom...really?!?).  That put me in a pity party mood so now I'm spending the rest of the evening in bed dipping sugar cookies in a jar of peanut butter.

What's your FFC?

Ps, sorry I've been MIA this week.  The Nest won't work on my work computer anymore, grrrrr.

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  • edited August 2013
    For whatever reason, anytime I out effort into making dinner DH picks that night to "catch a drink" after work with friends. Then comes home hours after the said ETA. I don't care as much now that he knows I won't wait for him and if its cold, it's cold. But I think it's rude. Enjoy your cookie/peanut butter mix. I would never have thunk up that combo lol ETA; he called and apologized that he's always late when he goes out. Came home and really enjoyed dinner. Got a job offer!

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  • BruinsBabe33BruinsBabe33 member
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    edited August 2013
    Isn't that the kid who sees dead people? I don't think he is super well adjusted... (ETA: just realized that is Joel Osment. I am notorious for not knowing actors names.. My B!)

    Sorry you are having a rough day! Enjoy your cookies an peanut butter!
  • Cookies in peanut butter sounds amazing! i It sucks when people assume that what works for them will solve everyone else's struggles. You are allowed to feel the way you feel. Enjoy your cookies!
    Eating Chocolate Bunny
    TTC since Dec. 2009. TTC buddies with Cinco and Faheat.
  • I hope you enjoyed your cookies and today is better!  Screw positive thinking.
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    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

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    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • my sister told me last night that she's probably going to spend the night out her new boyfriends house tonight. I think its slutty of her that they've been 'dating' approx. 4 weeks and she's sleeping with him and is now going to spend the night at his house....I mean I know she's an adult but I know she wants a relatioship and I just worry that if all they're doing is having sex than how do you build a relatioship off of that.

    I recognize this is none of my business and thats why i'm sharing in FFC.

  • I'm just in a really bitter mood today. I want to punch people in the face. My H told me to go for a run or something but I really just want to stew in negativity.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

    nfp147
  • I'm just in a really bitter mood today. I want to punch people in the face. My H told me to go for a run or something but I really just want to stew in negativity.
    Oh, but if you go for a run, just think of all the people you can find to punch in the face! :)

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  • I'm really tired of people and their unsolicited advice. I want to punch them all in their face. 
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    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • amccul20 said:

    my sister told me last night that she's probably going to spend the night out her new boyfriends house tonight. I think its slutty of her that they've been 'dating' approx. 4 weeks and she's sleeping with him and is now going to spend the night at his house....I mean I know she's an adult but I know she wants a relatioship and I just worry that if all they're doing is having sex than how do you build a relatioship off of that.

    I recognize this is none of my business and thats why i'm sharing in FFC.

    I slept with H after knowing him for appx 7 hours.

    Slutty, yes. In my defense, I'd never done that before (really) and I was 21 and reeeeaaaally drunk. But oh well.
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

    seahorse01MRads
  • I'm just in a really bitter mood today. I want to punch people in the face. My H told me to go for a run or something but I really just want to stew in negativity.

    <3

    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • FFC- I think sugar cookies dipped in peanut butter sounds gross.

    :)
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

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  • Aimothy said:
    amccul20 said:

    my sister told me last night that she's probably going to spend the night out her new boyfriends house tonight. I think its slutty of her that they've been 'dating' approx. 4 weeks and she's sleeping with him and is now going to spend the night at his house....I mean I know she's an adult but I know she wants a relatioship and I just worry that if all they're doing is having sex than how do you build a relatioship off of that.

    I recognize this is none of my business and thats why i'm sharing in FFC.

    I slept with Jimothy on our 2nd date. I think we built a pretty good relationship off of all the sex we had in the beginning. 
    I slept with Tom before we were actually dating.... it led to a great relationship for us too!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

    seahorse01
  • My tenant brought me donuts today. I'm trying to give them away but impending AF is tempting me to eat them all myself!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • FFC- I think sugar cookies dipped in peanut butter sounds gross. :)
    I agree.  But I also don't really like peanut butter.

    I slept with DH on the third date I think.
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  • Aimothy said:
    amccul20 said:

    my sister told me last night that she's probably going to spend the night out her new boyfriends house tonight. I think its slutty of her that they've been 'dating' approx. 4 weeks and she's sleeping with him and is now going to spend the night at his house....I mean I know she's an adult but I know she wants a relatioship and I just worry that if all they're doing is having sex than how do you build a relatioship off of that.

    I recognize this is none of my business and thats why i'm sharing in FFC.

    I slept with Jimothy on our 2nd date. I think we built a pretty good relationship off of all the sex we had in the beginning. 
    We dated for 3 weeks before I slept with Chris and he still gives me a hard time about making him wait that long.
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  • DH and I were dating for a couple of months before we had sex. But we were going to separate colleges something like 2 1/2 hours away from each other and neither of us had a car. So that certainly had something to do with the wait!
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    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
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  • Board related FFC-- I really like debate on UO Thursdays, but when it gets mean, it makes me want to leave. Debating beliefs is one thing, and I like that, but being an asshole is another.

    Was yesterday mean?

    I thought it was rather civil, but my barometer for mean is pretty high.
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  • maybe I'm just a prude. Ben and I waited about 4 weeks and he still makes fun of me for holding out on him.
  • Board related FFC-- I really like debate on UO Thursdays, but when it gets mean, it makes me want to leave. Debating beliefs is one thing, and I like that, but being an asshole is another.

    Was yesterday mean?

    I thought it was rather civil, but my barometer for mean is pretty high.
    I wasn't thinking of any specific one- just in general.

    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • The only reason Tom and I didn't have sex immediately after meeting is because AF was in town. That's it. Otherwise,  would've been alllll about it. We did have sex the second time. And it was amazing.  :P

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • amccul20 said:
    maybe I'm just a prude. Ben and I waited about 4 weeks and he still makes fun of me for holding out on him.
    I wouldn't say you're prude. I'd call you patient! I'm not!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • amccul20 said:

    maybe I'm just a prude. Ben and I waited about 4 weeks and he still makes fun of me for holding out on him.

    Isn't this the exact timeline you described about your sister?
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  • Board related FFC-- I really like debate on UO Thursdays, but when it gets mean, it makes me want to leave. Debating beliefs is one thing, and I like that, but being an asshole is another.

    Was yesterday mean?

    I thought it was rather civil, but my barometer for mean is pretty high.
    I wasn't thinking of any specific one- just in general.

    Oh ok good.
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  • My FFC is that Tom and I were supposed to go to our friends lake house this weekend and I begged him not to go because the owners have a brand new baby and I just can't. I feel like a bad person but it's getting increasingly harder for me to be around babies. 

    I've just been having a really tough IF month.

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • My FFC is that Tom and I were supposed to go to our friends lake house this weekend and I begged him not to go because the owners have a brand new baby and I just can't. I feel like a bad person but it's getting increasingly harder for me to be around babies. 

    I've just been having a really tough IF month.
    <3
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  • We waited a couple of months, but we were 16 and 18 and both virgins. So that made a difference.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

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    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • I'm really glad others here didn't wait that long to have sex because my friends made me feel guilty that we "only" waited three weeks into dating.
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  • ILoveRedVinoILoveRedVino member
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    edited August 2013

    @amandaf6383, lots of love to you.  <3

    And I don't think anyone here would flame you for that.

    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

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