So I'm going to try and keep this as brief as possible. My sister-in-law and I have had a very difficult relationship from the begining. At the begining she didnt like me and made it very known. Things got a little but better over the years, but we still have our occasional fights. The most recent one is bad. She was talking to my husbands ex girlfriend...and thats not the problem...the problem is she lied about it and was downright rude when I confronted her about it. She called me every name in the book and insulted my looks. She also was very rude to my husband, her brother.
On top of this she and her "fiance" are planning a very fast wedding...she just told everyone she was getting married a week ago and its planned for this Friday. During the fight she said she didnt want us as the witnesses and she doesnt even want us there. Well this has created quite the conflict with the family. I have no problem not going, however I feel bad for my husband who refuses to go unless she apologizes. If she apologizes to me I dont even know if I would go.
Just wanted to get thoughts on what I should do. Do I ignore the hurtful things she said to me and go to the wedding for my husband? Or do I ignore what the family is saying and my husband and I not go? My MIL says its something we will regret but she understands and supports our decision.
Any suggestions are helpful