I'm not sure if this is the right board to post on, but I've only been married a few months and am about to start the divorce procedure. I'm just so angry and would love to speak to other women like me, especially those who are in their late 20s/early 30s. Things weren't perfect when we got married, but I was willing to work on our issues. I had a sit-down with my fiance and 3 family members before we got married to make SURE he was on the same page as me and knew that going through with the wedding means we are committed to this and going to TRY instead of get angry and give up when there are bumps in the road. Well, that wasn't the case. Literally the day after the wedding he started working 7 days a week to avoid me/our problems, refused to go to therapy, and started sleeping in the other room. Now several months of this have gone by and I don't know what to do since he won't join me in this relationship or do anything to help make progress. I'm so mad that I could have been given the courtesy of knowing this and NOT getting married, but instead he went through with it, and now I'm trapped in this situation. Neither of us were totally without blame, but at least I was willing to listen and hear what was bothering him and totally willing to change. But it just seems like he wanted things to magically get better without him having to do any work or lift a finger. There is such a stigma about divorce among people my age, and I hate to think that people will look down on me because of the D word now, especially the men I will meet once I start dating (at least that's my fear). I really do value marriage and was prepared to work through thick and thin, good and bad, but I guess my husband wasn't. I wish there was a way to fix this but it's been months of living apart now and him just giving up. Is anyone else in my position??