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Saying I Love you

How long into the relationship did you or DH say I love you?

Re: Saying I Love you

  • About three months or so, although I knew it before then (that I loved him).
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  • I think DH blurted it out about a month after we started dating.
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  • Maybe about 9 months in.

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  • I know that DH said it first, but I can't seem to remember when that was!
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  • DH asked me if I was in love with him after one week. It was mutual! We were a "love at first sight" couple. I knew I would marry him the minute I saw him and was head over heels in love with him by the end of our second date.

  • He said it first in about 2 or 3 months.  I just didn't get there for almost a year.  When he said I love you, I'd always say "I love you loving me."
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  • 8 or 9 months.  I would have said it sooner, but we were long distance and I wanted to say it face to face.  He said it over the phone a month or two earlier, but so quietly I didn't know if I'd heard him right... and by the time I found my voice again he was off the line.  He didn't say it again until I said it. 
  • DH was with his family on vacation and he drove 3 hours home to come tell me he loved me and make love to me into the early morning hours before I had surgery the next morning; it was July 7, 04 just over eights months after we started dating.
  • About 6 weeks after we met.  FI said it first b/c he could tell I was going to say it.  I can't keep it bottled in :-)
  • I have no idea.  I can't even remember who said it first! 
  • DH said it first a month after we started dating.
  • I think it was around 1 month that he said it to me.  We started out from the very beginning knowing that we were head over heels and prepared to be in the relationship for the long haul. 
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  • A month, I said it first.
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  • DH said it at 6 months.
  • I think it was about 1.5 years?
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  • I guess you can say he said it first, we were long distance and were chatting online and he said "love ya" about 3 months into our relationship.  It took me a bit to be able to say it to him face to face though, but I knew I did.
  • About 3 months. I was laughing and said, "Oh I love you" (on accident!) and he looked at me and said, "I love you too". I was so nervous I couldn't stop laughing.?
  • It was around 6 months after we started dating and it was mutual.  I actually knew the first day that I met him that he was the one, but we were both in relationships and it was months later before we started dating.

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  • we were also a "love at first sight" couple.


    We said it over the phone in week 3 when I was on a week vacation without him.  We havent stopped saying it since.





  • DH said it all the time when he was drunk after about two weeks. I said it to him (sober) after about two months.

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  • After about a month in...
  • A little under a month.  He wrote it in my birthday card (three days before our one month anniversary).  I teased him about not being able to say it, and he said that he knew I felt the same way.  He was absolutely right.  I wanted to tell him that night that I loved him but didn't want him to think I was saying it because he was taking me to a fancy resturant or spoiling me for my bday.
  • About 5 1/2 months in... he said it 1st.  Smile

  • 1 month DH said it first.  I responded with "I can't tell you I love you yet, I want to be sure I really do when I say it." 
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  • DH said it to me one night when I was falling asleep, about 2 months into our relationship. I think he thought I was actually asleep. It took me a little longer to say it to him because of a bad previous relationship. He was so understanding. When I finally did, we continued to click, and things have been great ever since.

    Our "I love you"s mean more to me than anything. I know, mushy, right? haha

  • Negative 5 months.
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