Oh my gosh. I held off as long as possible posting about this because I know everyone gets sick of these posts, but I really need some advice. This may get long, I'm sorry!
I have no sex drive whatsoever. I went on BCP for the first time in June, and was on Yaz. I was on that until maybe mid September, early October(?) and had had some weight gain and some sex drive issues, and some pretty bad dryness between that and my Lexapro.
So I talked to my doctor, who really wasn't terribly helpful at all, and I decided to switch to Yasmin. That was good for a little while, in fact there was one week we had sex every day for a week! Woo hoo! And didn't even have to use lube!
But since then it has been sooooooooooo downhill. I think we've tried twice since then and it hurts so bad. Not like, sore tightness but like holy crap I'm going to rip down there tightness. And if we use lube, it burns. I have no natural lubrication at all. NOTHING can get me in the mood. I can't even get in the mood to go take a bubble bath and relax and try to stretch things out/help myself out. I thought maybe for awhile it was stress from school, but I'm done with school now. Nothing else terribly stressful going on.
Also, on a possibly unrelated note, I have a period question as well. The first day or so of my period, it burns really really bad. I have no idea why. It doesn't seem to be a problem any other time, but the last two months it's been an issue. So any advice there would be appreciated as well!
I just feel so bad for poor DH. I try really hard but it just sucks and hurts sooooo bad. Argh. I think I'm going to call the doctor on Monday about Mirena, but we don't have insurance, so it's going depend on if they offer payment plans and what kind.
TIA for listening to me vent and for any advice!