My fiance and I broke up in August and our wedding was supposed to be December 13th (this past weekend). We had some issues that we could not work out and we thought that it would be best not to go ahead with the wedding at this point.
Right now we are friends but not seeing each other. The agreement was that we would take some time apart, sort out our problems individually, and then perhaps try to get back together at some point in the future. I really want to work things out, but I'm not sure how to approach it without looking clingy or desperate. I tried seeing other people, but I'm really just not interested. I've been working to get myself together and make myself into a better person (this is for my benefit,nothing to do with him) by going to grad school, working out, and doing things to help better my community.
Ex-fi will be moving back to our hometown in a few weeks. He'll be here until his job begins in August. I'm hoping that while he's here we can get things back on track.
Do you have any tips for how I can try to make this work without making myself look desperate?