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Military newlywed problems! HELP!
Hey gals I married my husband two months ago and moved near his base three weeks ago. We have been going through a lot since I moved with him. I left my job to move here. I dont have friends or family nearby. I am unemployed and dont have a drivers license nor a car therefore im quite limited in terms of going out on my own. To top it off i am going through a miscarriage since last friday. I feel that things are overwhelming me and right now im dealing with him going out. His coworkers were having a bar thing because one of his junior marines picked up. He asked me if he could go and although I really didnt want him to go... i told him that it was ok. Of course I did express that i'd rather him stay with me to keep me company but I figured it would also be nice for him to just go out and maybe unwind from the miscarriage (he has been trying to be strong for me). Point being I feel miserable and upset because he is out drinking and im here in our apt alone. I dont have friends here and I want to move past the point where i stop being needy like this.... i know its not healthy to alienate each other from friends but also he is all i have here....any advice?