Please tell me If I am out of line....I really need outside perspective right now. Also sorry if this gets long.
So one of my BFFs is getting married next September. I was in her wedding in 2005 with her ex. Since then we have become closer. I txt her Good Morning every morning for at least the past 3 years now.
Well awhile back she told me if she ever got remarried I would be her MOH. Well then she decided since I'm pregnant and will have a 10 month old by the wedding that she didn't want me to have the extra stress. So she asked her sister and his sister instead. So, OK I'm fine with that I understand the sister thing. Wish she didn't bring up why she wasn't picking me and just said my sister is my MOH, but whatever.
So next day she sends out a bridal party contact list. Then proceeds to tell me they already paired people up! OK this is a little soon when you kicked a girl out of your bridal party last time. Well then 2 days later she sends out an update list and cut my name from the middle and moved it to the end. So now the order is Her sister, His sister, Her friend who didn't support her divorce and now that she is also getting a divorce decided to be her friend again 2 weeks ago, his sister-in-law (just got added), his friends wife, then me.
So when I asked her about order she was like oh its not decided, but it will be by height. Well if its by height why did you pair people? Also I know I am the shortest.
So obviously I asked her a few questions already a told her she hurt my feelings. I just need an outside view because my mom and DH think what she did was pretty crappy.
I seriously would do anything in the world for my BFFs so I hope I don't come off bitchy. Thank you so much if you took the time to read all of this!