DH's cousin is getting married and her mom (AIL) just sent out an evite for the rehearsal dinner. MIL immediately texted me aghast that she had done so. This is sort of par for the course for spacey AIL who wouldn't even realize there's possibly an issue with an evite for an RD, so I wasn't surprised and shrugged it off. WDYT?
FWIW, the RD is a catered dinner with live music and fireworks outdoors at AIL's house in the country - sort of the rustic chic thing you see on Pinterest all the time.