So, I am thinking of having a fiesta themed party for my 30th this year but I really, really, really dislike one of my friend's husband. Pretty much everyone that meets him feels the same way. People have left our other parties because of him. And this time, it's MY birthday and I don't want it ruined by him. I would love to have her there, but him, no way, Jose. I have never told her how I feel but it's pretty darn obvious, and the feeling is mutual. I would hate for someone to tell me DH wasn't invited, but I would be hurt if she didn't invite me to hers.
So, what would you do?
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