I have an almost 2 year old who will have a birthday on September 22 and my husband will be 35 on October 8. His parents have a camp in the Adirondecks that is about one hour away where we have a fair amount of friends and a lot of sleeping area. In passing, I know he would love it if all of his friends came out for his birthday, but I think if I asked him he would think it was too much and not want to do it.
So, I was thinking about having a surpise birthday party for him. I was thinking about doing it earlier than his actual birthday as his parents couldn't make it that weekend and who knows what the weather would do. As of right now, the best weekend for everyone is September 17. I was planning to have a birthday party for my son the next weekend. So, I was contemplating having a birthday party for both of them on that day and the surpise being that it is for Ryan too and have all of his friends come and spend the whole day back at camp. We don't have a huge family and Reilly is 2, so only have a few friends from the area we would invite.
So, do you think that would be cheesy? Smart? Stupid? Thanks for your thoughts.