I know we've got a few experts on marriage counseling in here... tell me about it. What should one expect going into it? How do you go about finding a counselor? I would love to use one of the ones that y'all recommend, but since I'm not in the OKC area, that's impossible.
The reason I ask is because I feel like H and I could benefit greatly from it. We're not having any serious marriage problems or any thing like that, I just feel like it would help us 'smooth' things out. I believe we have a communication issue. I'm so extremely laid back and flexible about everything and life and H is not. At all - he's wound tight about nearly everything. Everything is a big deal to him whereas, with me, it's just like: okay, no big deal, we'll fix it and move on. I think that maybe our personalities conflict with each other and kind of stump our communication and when it does finally all come to head, it's a huge thing.
I've heard y'all say so many great things about it that I'd really love to give it a try.