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FFF Confessions

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  • I have been a complete waste of space most of this week. I really need to write some more articles so we get paid more next week since we are going to Miami for a night and because we are moving in 3 weeks and that's going to be expensive....but it has been DH's bday week. And I have just been...doing nothing. Lol yesterday I spent the day cooking up a big birthday dinner then I made a ton of cheesecake stuffed strawberries for his party tonight...and right now I should be writing but I am nesting....

    And I am going to try to go write now...but I honestly want to go shower and do my hair all perfect and my make up and then make these special cupcakes I am going to make for tonight......I do not want to write :-(


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    The flag isnt put up by the state, It was put up by a man stuck in the past.

    My confession... recently ive "caught" DH looking at porn every morning. I dont confront him about it anymore but hes really bad at hiding it, and boy does he try. Now that I know I will go onto the computer when he leaves for work and watch the videos that he did. It makes my blood boil but I just feel the pressing need to do it, and to know whats tickling his fancy, and usually im disgusted by what I find.

    Oh man, I'm sorry you have to deal with that! Do you think he's addicted to it?

  • I haven't seen the billboard yet, but it already makes my blood boil, too. There was much discussion on religion on 6-12 earlier. Now there's some weird AE stuff and I don't know what's going on anymore.  

    As for the I-4 flag, it's so embarassing. And sad.

    My confession is lame. I like baby fruit purees. In fact, I'm eating one right now. It's mango and it's delicious. And I'm getting a serving of fruit in.

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  • image jdsegarr:

     yesterday I spent the day cooking up a big birthday dinner then I made a ton of cheesecake stuffed strawberries for his party tonight...

    cheesecake stuffed strawberries??? Omg I've never heard of that, it sounds divine!

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    O He wouldn't even know how to lie about it if he did- he's terrible at telling lies.

    So is my H!  He can't even lie about the dumbest things without getting a smirk across his face.  I can read him like a book!

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    As for me..... my blood boiled today when I noticed a new billboard on I-75. It says "This is a Christian State" and was put there by noseparation.org. It really really really felt like a slap in my face, can't help how I felt. I love that this billboard isn't too far from the giant confederate flag near the I-4 area. I'm not saying those 2 things are related, but to me, neither are very classy. If anyone likes that flag and loves noseparation.org, I'm sorry to upset you, but this is my ff post and I hate both those things!!!

    Lauren I totally get what you are saying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  This is kind of different, I guess, but there is this little community church around the corner from my house.  It is in a cute building that has kind of a spanish look to it (I think at one point it was a church that held mostly spanish speaking services) and now it has a sign outside that I find offensive.  It is this huge sign that has a desperately sad looking young man on (with his head and his hands and all) and it says, "Got Church?  Life doesn't have to suck."  Um ok, i get it, BUT does it have to say suck?!  I just feel like that is a little over the top.  I have a major potty mouth, but I still try to watch myself around Isaiah and altho he can't read yet, I feel like the sign is a little innapropriate to be out in public!

    Not only is it inappropriate to be in public, but it is inappropriate for a church to be posting it.  Isn't that somewhat of a double standard (to be using that kind of language in a religious manner)?

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    image jdsegarr:

     yesterday I spent the day cooking up a big birthday dinner then I made a ton of cheesecake stuffed strawberries for his party tonight...

    cheesecake stuffed strawberries??? Omg I've never heard of that, it sounds divine!

     

    I have already had 4 Embarrassed this morning 


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    I have been a complete waste of space most of this week. I really need to write some more articles so we get paid more next week since we are going to Miami for a night and because we are moving in 3 weeks and that's going to be expensive....but it has been DH's bday week. And I have just been...doing nothing. Lol yesterday I spent the day cooking up a big birthday dinner then I made a ton of cheesecake stuffed strawberries for his party tonight...and right now I should be writing but I am nesting....

    And I am going to try to go write now...but I honestly want to go shower and do my hair all perfect and my make up and then make these special cupcakes I am going to make for tonight......I do not want to write :-(

     

    OMG those strawberries look amazing.....that will be added to my list of things to make off your blog :) 

     

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    Oh man, I'm sorry you have to deal with that! Do you think he's addicted to it?

    I told him I found a bunch of porn a while back and he said that it started when I first started to really look pregnant. talk about a blow to your ego right? Sex has been difficult for us lately to say the least. and everytime I think I want it, I think about how hes just going to get his thrills later so why bother. I cant really compare.

  • Flame free? A post on the knot pissed me off... lol

    Someone asked about Sunken Gardens, which is where I had my reception and another person posted that the reception room was embaressing. I don't think it is at all but yeah... it really got me hot and bothered.

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  • I have two.  First one-  I used to work in a childrens retail store and over the 3 years that I worked there I accumulated a crazy amount of baby items.  The other night DH asked me if the two totes in the hallway closet were the only ones I had.  I told him there were a couple more....there are actually like 6 more totes.  I probably have enough clothes to cloth our child for the first 3 years of its life regardless of if it is a boy or girl :) He will flip when he has to get them out of the attic!

    Second one- Kathy I can relate, I have had a junior whopper and a coke icee every single day this week for lunch.  I plan on having another today.  Its really the only thing that doesnt make me want to puke.

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    Oh man, I'm sorry you have to deal with that! Do you think he's addicted to it?

    I told him I found a bunch of porn a while back and he said that it started when I first started to really look pregnant. talk about a blow to your ego right? Sex has been difficult for us lately to say the least. and everytime I think I want it, I think about how hes just going to get his thrills later so why bother. I cant really compare.

    Wow, it's shocking to me that a guy would say that to his pregnant wife. That actually made my mouth drop open. Tongue Tied

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    Oh man, I'm sorry you have to deal with that! Do you think he's addicted to it?

    I told him I found a bunch of porn a while back and he said that it started when I first started to really look pregnant. talk about a blow to your ego right? Sex has been difficult for us lately to say the least. and everytime I think I want it, I think about how hes just going to get his thrills later so why bother. I cant really compare.

    Wow, it's shocking to me that a guy would say that to his pregnant wife. That actually made my mouth drop open. Tongue Tied

    Yeah, the fact that he is trying to blame you b/c you are pregnant is totally not cool.  We have a don't ask don't tell policy in my house when it comes to the videos and whatnot.  I'd rather MH didn't look at it, but if he does I fully expect him not to leave it up on the screen or make it obvious that he was enjoying it.  However, I would be very upset with him if he made me feel for even a second that he was doing it b/c he found me less attractive now.  MH still tells me all the time how amazing I look and it's really important to me that he still try to woo me, even if I'm not in the mood very often.

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    Yeah, the fact that he is trying to blame you b/c you are pregnant is totally not cool.  We have a don't ask don't tell policy in my house when it comes to the videos and whatnot.  I'd rather MH didn't look at it, but if he does I fully expect him not to leave it up on the screen or make it obvious that he was enjoying it.  However, I would be very upset with him if he made me feel for even a second that he was doing it b/c he found me less attractive now.  MH still tells me all the time how amazing I look and it's really important to me that he still try to woo me, even if I'm not in the mood very often.

    I agree with Kendra.....it's totally not cool that he blamed his porn habit on your pregnancy.

    I am sure my H  has visited porn sites but we have a don't ask don't tell policy too.  I would rather he didn't visit those sites but if he does it's best he keeps that to himself.  Honestly, when it comes to something like that I take the stance that ignorance is bliss. 

    These days I don't put out often......I am not in the mood AT ALL since I got KU.  However, if my H ever made a comment about my growing belly he could guarantee that porn would be his ONLY thrills he would be getting!!

    I would sit him down and have a conversation about what he said to you, what you found on the computer and how it makes you feel.  Sorry to take over you FFF post but I think you will be much happier once you get this off you chest and have an open conversation with your H.  I think if you are unhappy about something you should voice your displeasures!!!

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    12/09 - Macy (daughter) | 4/10 - Began TTC Baby #2 | 12/10 - Chemical Pregnancy | 1/12 - Miscarriage at 14 weeks | DX - PCOS & Hyperthyroidism
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    image kdlafalam:

    Oh man, I'm sorry you have to deal with that! Do you think he's addicted to it?

    I told him I found a bunch of porn a while back and he said that it started when I first started to really look pregnant. talk about a blow to your ego right? Sex has been difficult for us lately to say the least. and everytime I think I want it, I think about how hes just going to get his thrills later so why bother. I cant really compare.

    Wow, it's shocking to me that a guy would say that to his pregnant wife. That actually made my mouth drop open. Tongue Tied

    Yeah, the fact that he is trying to blame you b/c you are pregnant is totally not cool.  We have a don't ask don't tell policy in my house when it comes to the videos and whatnot.  I'd rather MH didn't look at it, but if he does I fully expect him not to leave it up on the screen or make it obvious that he was enjoying it.  However, I would be very upset with him if he made me feel for even a second that he was doing it b/c he found me less attractive now.  MH still tells me all the time how amazing I look and it's really important to me that he still try to woo me, even if I'm not in the mood very often.

    oh nooooo. I would NOT be ok with H saying this to me!!! It is UNFAIR!!!!!!! 

  • I confess that I don't recognize about 20% of the names on here.

    I also confess that I kind of like when my daughter occasionally reaches for me when H is holding her.  I know she loves him and vice versa but it feels good to be validated.  (Then again she is with me all day, every day.)

    That's all I got, lame yea I know.

  • The child I'm a Guardian ad Litem for has been moved yet again to another foster mom.  Well I have been trying to get a hold of the new foster mom for over a week with no response.  And I HAVE to see my child by today (end of the month).  So I am about to drive 45 min there and back and if she's not there I am going to be super PO'd.
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    The child I'm a Guardian ad Litem for has been moved yet again to another foster mom.  Well I have been trying to get a hold of the new foster mom for over a week with no response.  And I HAVE to see my child by today (end of the month).  So I am about to drive 45 min there and back and if she's not there I am going to be super PO'd.

    oooh that would make me mad!! i am ALWAYS available for my GAL's and CM's and stuff bc I know how busy they are and that the volunteers are doing this on their own time!  Where do they live?!  I am now a volunteer too and i am doing a bunch of courtesy visits for my husband's office (cases that really are another counties court case but the kids are placed here)

  • OMG I just came home from Target and am floored by what I witnessed.  I was checking out at the register and some little boy handed the cashier a piece of candy and she swiped it.  I told her that it wasn't mine and the cashier lady gave me this look like "are you kidding me?"  As the cashier voided the item, I turn to the left to see the boy's mother just standing there and not even saying anything about it.  WTF????????? 

    I was livid that the mother did not admonish the boy nor did she even acknowledge that it even happened.  Sorry lady, I am not paying for something YOUR kid wants, no matter if it is a $1.99 piece of candy or something else. 

    Oh and I have no idea why the stupid cashier was giving me attitude.  Um, if the damn item isn't mine I am not paying for it.  

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  • image amazingkel:

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    The child I'm a Guardian ad Litem for has been moved yet again to another foster mom.  Well I have been trying to get a hold of the new foster mom for over a week with no response.  And I HAVE to see my child by today (end of the month).  So I am about to drive 45 min there and back and if she's not there I am going to be super PO'd.

    oooh that would make me mad!! i am ALWAYS available for my GAL's and CM's and stuff bc I know how busy they are and that the volunteers are doing this on their own time!  Where do they live?!  I am now a volunteer too and i am doing a bunch of courtesy visits for my husband's office (cases that really are another counties court case but the kids are placed here)

    In South Hillsborough.  I finally ended up just driving down there and the whole family is home, but apparently no one is capable of answering the phone?!  Foster mom wasn't home when I got there and foster dad did not even come out of his bedroom...one of the other foster children let me in.  When I was headed out I see foster mom and I was like "Oh hey...I tried calling you SEVERAL times and never got a response so I decided to just come over."  She acted like there was nothing wrong with that.  Ugh.  Kudos to you, Kel, for being such an amazing foster mom/soon-to-be mom!!

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  • image J&BG:

    I have also been eating & drinking like craaaap this week and it's probably only going to get worse tonight at happy hour! Ha! On Wednesday we went to the Rays v. Yankees game, I had 2 hot dogs, a bucket of popcorn and more beers than I could count... AND McDonalds at the end of the night. That's right. I am absolutely certain that I have gained 5 lbs this week!

    I had a lot of rays fans at my McDonald's on Wednesday?  Were you one of mine?  I work at Bearss and Florida Avenue.

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