My sister just got engaged and told me that I am her matron of honor, so I will be planning her bridal shower (at least the one for the family). The only problem with this is, my sister is not a typical bride. She is hesitant even to have a shower and is having an outdoor vintage ('50'sish) wedding with a pig roast reception. Any ideas to make this more tolerant for her? Keep in mind this shower will be mostly for middle aged women....she is having another one back where she lives for friends....Thanks in advance!