Mostly just me bitching, so I apologize in advance
This fall a friend of my husband's from HS is getting married. H is part of the wedding party and I know absolutely no one from this group of people with the exception of the friend and his parents. I've never even met the soon-to-be Mrs. H was talking to the groom last night and he said that they want all the GM to arrive on Thursday morning so they can try their tux on to make sure everything fits. If not, they can get a new tux within 24 hours. Whatever, it makes sense, but it is still super annoying because now you are asking us to make your wedding a 4 day event. Not to mention we have to drive 3.5 hours to get to this event, going on Thursday would require us to both take time off of work and spend an extra night in a hotel room plus an extra night boarding our dogs. Friday, the groom wants all the guys to go golfing and H would have to pay for that too! Basically, what I am getting at is that I don't want to spend all the money that is going to be needed for this wedding. I know I sound like a big bitch but they have invited over 600 people so I have visions of this giant cluster fuck of a wedding where I won't see me H. How do I tell my H that I don't want to go? Do I even have that option?
Thanks for listening to me ladies! I'm sure it won't be the first time I complain about this certain event