Let me start off with we have only been married for 3 months. We had problems before we got married with him saying very inappropriate sexual things to female friends and I even found a topless picture on his computer of one of the "friends." We fought about it, talked about it, and I decided to trust that he would stop. Now, he says he has no one and that no one cares. He claims he has no one he can talk to anymore and that he only trusts to talk to females because of how he grew up (lived in house with 2 sisters and mom, dad cheated and divorced when he was 9).
About 2 weeks ago, we went out to eat for our mutual friends birthday (female). We went back to her place with several others and towards the end of the night he brought up to a different girl that he wanted to set up her and the guy that was his best man. The next day, they started chatting on facebook (we have a joined account). She ended up giving him her number to give to his best man cause she did not want to text him first.
Now, the girl and best man have met once and text back and forth. They hit it off. BUT my husband and I got into a fight because as soon as he got her number, he started texting her a lot. Then when I brought it up to him, he said that if I don't let him talk to her then he will find someone I dont know to be friends with. Then brought up how his ex-gf took away all his friends so he found this other girl to be friends with (who later lived with him). He told me that he just has a void that needs filled with a female friend for him to talk to. I brought up having mutual friends but he shot that down pretty quitckly because then he couldn't talk to them about our problems. (also all the females that he has ever talked to are either single or have cheated in the past on their bf)
I want to trust that he is not going to say or do anything to hurt me, but with our past and those last few comments, I'm not sure how I should take it. Meanwhile, our sex life has been less than anything and he brought up the fact that he is watching porn quite a bit. He told me that it was to help fill the void also. (with what he said then, he is filling his void with porn and female friends) He is the kind of person that will say anything just to get a reaction. I'm not sure if I am just being insecure/jealous, or if I should be concerned...?