I just got into grad school about two hours from where my boyfriend of 3.5 yeArs lives. We are college (undergrad) sweethearts and currently live 2 hours apart since I graduated from my undergrad in may 2012. Since I'm moving for grad school the plan is for him to move in with me a week or two after. He graduated a year ago but due to the economy has only been able to get minimum wage jobs. He will be looking for another minimum wage job near my grad school as well as opportunities that pertain to his major.
There is a part of me that can see myself with him forever if he steps up and gets a career. But I constantly feel like I am being let down. Even when he got a good job he quit before orientation was over without even discussing it with me. I feel that I am supposed to be excited about moving in together but all I feel is nervous, overwhelmed, and unsure.
my ex has also reached out to me lately and the thought of going back to him is very tempting because he is in a secure job and trustworthy and we connected on so many levels where my current boyfriend and I are completely opposites. All I know is I am very unsure oaf everything and when I start to feel good about everything the uncertainty comes back very quickly. I was wondering if anyone has any advice or comments about how they were feeling when they moved in with someone.