So... My very best friend needs a place to live for 6 months. My husband and I are newlyweds (summer 2012), and bought our first home in September.
Since we now own a house, my friend asked if she could move in with us temporarily. She offered to pay rent. I've known her for 10 years, and my husband grew up with her since kindergarten.
I love her dearly. The problem is that the thought of my husband and her in the house when I'm not there (I work long hours and travel often for work) makes me anxious. Of course I trust them both. But it still makes me anxious... they get along very well and, without sounding pathetic, she actually "fits" into his family much better than I do. In fact, his mother often talks about her and how much she likes her. She has the same corporate career path as everyone else in his family... whereas I'm more of a "free-spirited" artist.
Am I being crazy/paranoid? I'm a little insecure of myself, perhaps. I want to make sure our new marriage is protected and don't want to invite any unnecessary stress/tension... but I also don't want either of them to think I don't trust them... and my friend is very excited to live with me (she's already buying items for her "new bedroom")...